{"id":723,"date":"2012-05-10T08:11:31","date_gmt":"2012-05-10T13:11:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/?p=723"},"modified":"2012-05-10T08:11:32","modified_gmt":"2012-05-10T13:11:32","slug":"the-big-picture","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/?p=723","title":{"rendered":"The big picture"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The past few months have been some of the best hours\/days\/weeks that I have experienced in quite a while. I have found myself stepping back in awe of how fortunate I am to be surrounded by such loving people. My awe has led me to realize that it is the simple things that make me smile&#8230;a sincere embrace from a loved one, the smell of a honeysuckle bush, the contagious laughter between a group of friends.<\/p>\n<p>My recognition of what is important has grounded me. Big events that would have once left me scrambling do not appear as daunting as they once did. I know that I have the grace and support necessary to deal with whatever is thrown my way.<\/p>\n<p>Now for a moment of stark honesty. I am human. I allow my mind to run away&#8230;to the big picture. I think that it is healthy for us to do so. Keeping the big picture in mind allows for us to accomplish our goals.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, though, the big picture can be dangerous. We must be careful of recognizing our human limits. We are not fortune tellers. There is no way of knowing exactly which decisions\/opportunities\/moments we should be looking out for. We know the general direction that we should be walking but that is it.<\/p>\n<p>I am telling you this because we all get caught up in the big picture. We experience days\/weeks\/months in which the present circumstances seem so overwhelming that we assume the big picture to be unobtainable because it becomes so complex.<\/p>\n<p>The big picture can cloud the simplicity of life&#8230;the sweet text message that you receive from a loved one in the middle of the day, a really good book, the look on your child&#8217;s face when you return home from a long day at work&#8230;whatever it is that brings you joy.<\/p>\n<p>Therapy is made for the overwhelming moments that cloud the simplicity of life. Sometimes it is nice to have the space\/time\/person that can help to pull you out and remind you that you are not a fortune teller. You are human. We all get caught up in the big picture and that is okay.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Frame2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-731\" src=\"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Frame2-246x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"246\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Frame2-246x300.jpg 246w, https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Frame2-842x1024.jpg 842w, https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Frame2-123x150.jpg 123w, https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Frame2.jpg 1720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 246px) 100vw, 246px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It is important to keep the big picture in mind. But let me challenge you to focus on the simple things this week. After all&#8230;life is too short.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The past few months have been some of the best hours\/days\/weeks that I have experienced in quite a while. I have found myself stepping back in awe of how fortunate I am to be surrounded by such loving people. 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