{"id":2969,"date":"2013-03-07T08:37:20","date_gmt":"2013-03-07T13:37:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/?p=2969"},"modified":"2013-03-07T08:41:56","modified_gmt":"2013-03-07T13:41:56","slug":"indulge-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/?p=2969","title":{"rendered":"Indulge yourself."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Chocolate.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-2970\" alt=\"Chocolate\" src=\"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Chocolate-300x155.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"155\" srcset=\"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Chocolate-300x155.jpg 300w, https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Chocolate-1024x531.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Whenever I walk into the therapy office where I practice, I walk directly to the candy dish where I strategically pluck out a piece of Dove chocolate from the mound of Hershey&#8217;s kisses. I do this for two reasons: (1) I have a slight affinity to chocolate (it can make any day a good day) and (2) I get the chance to enjoy a piece of chocolate AND the chance to read an encouraging message.<\/p>\n<p>Usually these messages make me feel warm and fuzzy inside and bring a smile to my face. However, much to my dismay, I found myself letting out an exasperated sigh this past Tuesday evening after reading the much anticipated chocolate wrapper message.<\/p>\n<p>You may ask why. Let me tell you. The message said\u00a0<strong>&#8220;Indulge every whim.&#8221;<\/strong> My first thoughts were&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em>Whoa, boy. What? Indulge my every whim? How could I ever indulge my every whim and manage to get everything checked off the infamous to do list? This wrapper is suggesting utter carelessness.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Talk about being critical! The poor chocolate wrapper didn&#8217;t even have the chance to defend itself. Instead, it found itself crumpled up and thrown into a wastebasket.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">I am unsure of what led me to do it but I took some serious time to reflect on the message while driving home from the office that night.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">After some thought, I arrived at a conclusion: while indulging in\u00a0<em>every<\/em> whim may be excessive, it is certainly not a bad thing to indulge in whims. Rather, it is one of the most healthy things that we can do for ourselves.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Indulging in whims allows us the opportunity to let go and enjoy pretty much anything&#8230;a guilty pleasure, time with the family, trying something new, relaxing&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">This particular evening reminded me of how easy it is to slip into a humdrum routine&#8230;a routine that suffocates the whim.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">I am truly thankful that I read that chocolate wrapper message. It was a reminder for myself&#8230;one that I deemed important enough to share with you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Maybe you will decide to indulge a chocolate whim today&#8230;sounds like a good idea to me!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whenever I walk into the therapy office where I practice, I walk directly to the candy dish where I strategically pluck out a piece of Dove chocolate from the mound of Hershey&#8217;s kisses. 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