{"id":2805,"date":"2013-02-11T10:00:26","date_gmt":"2013-02-11T15:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/?p=2805"},"modified":"2013-01-23T13:23:12","modified_gmt":"2013-01-23T18:23:12","slug":"who-says-i-love-you-first","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/?p=2805","title":{"rendered":"Who says &#8220;I love you&#8221; first?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As a researcher, I thumb though articles in journals all the time. Some of what I come across is interesting&#8230;other&#8217;s not so much. Recently I came across <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1080\/00224545.2010.522626\">this <\/a>article that begins to uncover the development of love in a relationship. Specifically, the researchers were curious whether men or women feel and declare love first. Traditional thought tells us that it is women, however, the researchers found:<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_2806\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Garden-flowers-series-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2806\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2806\" alt=\"Image by robertovm\" src=\"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Garden-flowers-series-2-300x199.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Garden-flowers-series-2-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Garden-flowers-series-2-1024x680.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-2806\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image by robertovm<\/p><\/div>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;that although both men and women believe that women will fall in love and say \u201cI love you\u201d first in a relationship, men reported falling in love earlier and expressing it earlier than women reported. Analyses also showed no sex differences in attitudinal responses to items about love and romance.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>While we are certainly examining some differences of opinions, it is interesting that men are viewing themselves as being in love as much as women.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a researcher, I thumb though articles in journals all the time. Some of what I come across is interesting&#8230;other&#8217;s not so much. Recently I came across this article that begins to uncover the development of love in a relationship. Specifically, the researchers were curious whether men or women feel and declare love first. 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