{"id":1828,"date":"2012-08-30T07:50:03","date_gmt":"2012-08-30T12:50:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/?p=1828"},"modified":"2012-08-30T07:50:03","modified_gmt":"2012-08-30T12:50:03","slug":"success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/?p=1828","title":{"rendered":"Success"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This week I stumbled across something once stated by Winston Churchill:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em>&#8220;Success is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Stumbling across these words was one of those perfectly timed discoveries. I was sitting in a moment of frustration&#8230;on the verge of adopting a temporary defeatist state of mind. Those words pulled me out of my defeatist attitude and encouraged me to think about how I was defining success.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">We live in a world driven by success, a success that is often defined by societal standards:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Graduate from high school\u00a0<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-1829\" src=\"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/Therapy-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/Therapy-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/Therapy-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/li>\n<li>Attend college<\/li>\n<li>Graduate from college and either: (a) work at respected fill-in-the-blank or (b) attend graduate school<\/li>\n<li>Marry before your pool of eligibles is nonexistent<\/li>\n<li>Have children<\/li>\n<li>Maintain perfection while balancing work\/marriage\/children\/life<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>What happens, though, if we deviate from these standards? What happens if we define our own success&#8230;one that includes the failures that we will inevitably encounter?<\/p>\n<p>Surely, the standards of success are driven by ideals that we all uphold. It would be a fallacy to state that there is no truth to the standards that our society has created and upheld over a number of years. But&#8230;deviating from these standards or failing is not a declaration of defeat. Rather, it is a declaration of being human and of being an individual who has your own goals and perspective of success.<\/p>\n<p>What are your thoughts about breaking out of the mold and defining your own success?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This week I stumbled across something once stated by Winston Churchill: &#8220;Success is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.&#8221; Stumbling across these words was one of those perfectly timed discoveries. I was sitting in a moment of frustration&#8230;on the verge of adopting a temporary defeatist state of mind. 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