{"id":1464,"date":"2012-07-17T11:09:18","date_gmt":"2012-07-17T16:09:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/?p=1464"},"modified":"2012-07-17T11:09:18","modified_gmt":"2012-07-17T16:09:18","slug":"a-therapist-in-therapy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/?p=1464","title":{"rendered":"A Therapist in Therapy"},"content":{"rendered":"

Last month, I sat in on a lecture to new therapists about the ins and outs of private practice. When asked if they were in personal therapy, each of them responded with a shy shake of the head. The lecturer was surprised and exclaimed \u201cOh my gosh, why not?\u201d \u00a0She immediately instructed them to find a therapist.<\/p>\n

During my own training to become a therapist, I attended a wedding where I was reunited with some friends from high school. When I explained that I was not only a new therapist but also saw a personal therapist, a friend asked, \u201cWhy do you need counseling? Shouldn\u2019t you be able to do that yourself?\u201d<\/p>\n

The idea that therapists should not need therapy is a common one. Yet, the truth is that becoming the \u201cclient\u201d can offer valuable insight into my inner self and enhance my own ability to help others.<\/p>\n

\u201cTherapist must be familiar with their own dark side and be able to empathize with all human wishes and impulses.\u201d \u2013Irvin D. Yalom<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

My most valuable therapeutic resource is my ability to access my own emotions, thoughts, and impulses. My personal experiences allow me to understand more deeply the experiences of a client. \u00a0As you can imagine, sometimes even a medical doctor needs the opinion of a trusted colleague when it comes to his own healthcare. Unfortunately, similar to clients, I can also become stuck in the struggles of my own life, preventing me from accessing my ability to empathize with clients.When this happens, I can feel my work lose some of its power.<\/p>\n


\n\"\"<\/a>Regardless of if I attend formal therapy or a weekly meeting with other therapists \u2013 and I\u2019ve done both \u2013 the
\nconversations allow me to gain insight on what prevents me from being there for clients. These invaluable moments give me strength to tackle what arises in my personal life and in the therapy room.<\/p>\n

Overall, I welcome the insight of others. It’s what helps me grow.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Last month, I sat in on a lecture to new therapists about the ins and outs of private practice. When asked if they were in personal therapy, each of them responded with a shy shake of the head. The lecturer was surprised and exclaimed \u201cOh my gosh, why not?\u201d \u00a0She immediately instructed them to find a therapist. During my own Read more…<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":1465,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[62],"tags":[],"coauthors":[17],"class_list":["post-1464","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-human-2"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/1181213_88625943.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1464","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1464"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1464\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1470,"href":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1464\/revisions\/1470"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1465"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1464"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1464"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1464"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/collectiveinquiry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcoauthors&post=1464"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}